Thursday, February 7, 2013
My Unchecked To Do List
Nothing about this year has gone according to plan. At the
beginning of January, I spent several hours updating my home manager,
restructuring my monthly/weekly/daily schedule to allow for some goals I want
to accomplish this year and also to help me be more productive; you know, like
daily blog posting. You realize this is February 7 and this is first post of
the year, right?! And nothing, I mean not one single thing, has gone according
to plan. With a sigh of relief, I can say than it’s not entirely due to me
(already) slacking, but due more to unexpected things that have come up. Of
course, this recovering perfectionist allowed myself to get to an utter, epic
failure frame of mind. My sweet Savior has begun to speak gently, quietly to my
heart over the past few days, reminding me that, “Many are a man’s plans, but
it is the Lord who directs his steps.” I may not be getting one single thing
accomplished that I had hoped, but the interruptions and changes have not been
annoying irritations to my plans but rather His plans. I am in no way attempting
to justify my lack of productivity. I simply needed a refocus. My youth
minister in high school taught us on a mission trip to “Be Flexible. Be
Yielded.” That phrase has been invading my mind during the past week of this
epic failure pity party I’ve been throwing. I do not believe God is giving me a
free pass to be lazy or unproductive. That would contradict His word. What He is trying to teach me (I think-I'm a slow learner) is that I need to be flexible in my plans and
yielded to Him. I’ve had it backwards. I’ve been yielded to my plans. Do you
know how good it feels to cross every single item off a To Do List?! Yes, today
I have a list of things that I need to get done, however my “plan” for what I
should accomplish, according to my Home Manager, on this Thursday of the first
week of the month is not going to happen. An important truth of delighting in
everyday life is allowing God to guide my day. Of course we must get up and go
to work, if we work and get laundry done and meals prepared for our family. God
isn’t going to lead us to neglect our responsibilities. What I mean, especially
for us over-achievers, is that in our attempt to be organized, planned,
productive, we leave God out. Then when He meets us in our day, wanting to
accomplish something in us or through us, we feel as though our space has been
invaded. Oh yes, I know all about the psychology of human nature and that we
will never achieve our goals if we do not take steps to work towards them, but
today is all I have to honor God and walk in step with Him. Perhaps that is
just it; our goals are self-centered rather than God-centered. Maybe my goals
are really vain attempts to feel a sense of worth and control. Just maybe all
the things I want to get done, those adorably cute ,Pinterest projects and
perfectly organized home, look nothing like what He wants to get done through
me today. Delighting in my everyday life is not about having my life perfectly
together, but rather allowing Him to accomplish His perfect plan. The
unexpected phone calls, the sick child, the sudden burden to pray; having my
eyes open to how He is wanting to work through me and my heart receptive to how
He is wanting to work in me should be my goal for this day. As I move through
my to do list of responsibilities, He must become my frame of mind. It is
possible that a half marked To-Do list is delightful after all?
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